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Lelaki Melayu Tak Guna? or not.

Mon, 12 Jul 2010 01:06:57 +0800

I just read this article on Berita Minggu front page, “Lelaki Melayu Tak Guna”. First of all, thank you Berita Minggu for having so much “faith” in the Malay male population in Singapore. There are so many flaws in this article based on a Thesis paper by this lady named Lulu Marlya who I happened to know, not so directly during my JC days. I cannot fathom how such a superficial thesis paper can win an award. Okay maybe I haven’t read it myself, but I don’t think this article is portraying anything positive about her thesis paper. I would like to think that her thesis paper has no basis because she is not even married. Why would I want to get myself involved in an article about relationships when it is written by somebody of my age? What makes her more of an expert than I am? These are all subjective. And also, I’m beginning to feel that the whole article is touching on SPGs (Sarong Party Girls), okay maybe not entirely about the “Party” part. Okay let me create another term to suit this article, wait for it.....Sarong Elite Girls (SEGs). Yup! Malay women who think that they are too good for Malay guys.

The article mentioned that part of the Malay male population is not as smart as the females. This is flawed because paper qualification only does not sum up to a successful life. Success is subjective, you are emotionally successful? Financially successful? Just because you females have a degree or whatever, does not mean anything really. So you have a GPA of 5.0, so? The statement above has portrayed the female population as being elitist.

I give you a scenario, the man has a diploma but wants to continue studying but can’t due to financial reasons. He meets a girl, he likes the girl and the girl likes him. Then she discovers he has only diploma and stopped seeing him. YOU TELL ME HOW THAT GUY SUPPOSE TO FEEL DAMN IT! I don’t know about you guys but that is the impression I got after reading that statement.

The next statement is, Malay guys feel that they are of a higher standard/level than Malay women. Come on, this is the 21st century. Don’t make such generalizations. The article could try base the research on Malay males too rather than just Malay women who are married or attached to foreign men. The sample size = FAILED. I would love to be proven wrong with SPECIFIC calculations and research results. =)

Thirdly, Malay men are not as open-minded and make decisions alone. I think this is a delusional statement. Nobody said women can’t veto a decision. It is not cast in stone. Not everybody who goes into a relationship becomes an expert. There are always obstacles to go through. This gives me the impression that Malay women are AFRAID of obstacles and does not want challenges in their relationship. They would rather be with these “open-minded” foreigners who would give in to them about anything. Easy way out? I don’t know, could be a possibility.

Lastly, Malay men who are highly educated tend to be taken early. So is it our fault? This reason is not even congruent with the article heading “Lelaki melayu tak guna?”. You women are so complex. Single or taken men can be problems. And you want men that you can’t have. Please make up your mind and be realistic, not everything is perfect in this world.

You think you know me? think again...

Tue, 22 Jun 2010 06:41:12 +0800

I am growing tired of people who feel that they know me very well. Yes if you have been with me half of my life I guess you might know me very well. Any lesser than that, you know nuts.

How do you feel, being thrusted into a relationship/friendship where labels are being thrown around macam pasar malam? The moment you know that person, you put labels on him/her. You stereotype that person inferring from your first impression. I know it is inevitable but I seriously think it is getting out of control. Have you guys thought about giving the person the benefit of the doubt?

I have grown to learn not to stereotype people so quickly. If I do, then why study communications right? I might as well study Bachelor in Stereotyping (B.Stereo). How does that sound to you? People may find me weird but when you think again, who is the weird one now?

Please, please, don't act like you know me very well. There's more to me than my FACEBOOK account, there's more to me than this BLOG too. If you want to know me better, ask me out for coffee or something because I prefer a face to face interaction which people are afraid to do nowadays.

In other news, PORTUGAL had an awesome match against North Korea, 7 - 0. 7 FREAKING goals in the second half with one contributed by Ronaldo which was sensational and "Youtube worthy" =)). Todo o caminho Portugal! I don't really care who wins this WorldCup, I just want to see awesome matches. Nobody freaking subscribe to WorldCup to watch DRAWS or LOUSY wins. Allez Allez!

Michelle Branch & Timbaland - Getaway

Thu, 10 Jun 2010 07:14:10 +0800

I am the HAPPIEST boy on earth now =))

Paradiso Girls - Who's My B****

Tue, 08 Jun 2010 05:40:08 +0800

Finally after 2 years!!

Media & Perceptions

Sat, 22 May 2010 21:42:25 +0800

The New Paper (TNP) today reported on how bad the rating is for American Idol this season. For me, American idol has become less and less interesting but there are still some high between seasons. For example, last season with the likes of Adam Lambert (Awesome performer!) and Kris Allen.
The top 5 bum notes TNP discussed were;

1. Lee Dewyze Vs Crystal Bowersox
Yes, both of them are similar in many ways, singer-songwriter feeling with the guitar. Not much choice there. But who am I to judge what's in season in America. hahah. Maybe they are in season or America going for overkill. They want the underdogs to win. Thats 2 underdogs in the finale.

2. Judgement Time
The judges this season were TOO specific with their critique. They wanted the contestant to change to fit THEIR liking and preference. Truth be told that you can only be yourself and maximise your strengths and what you have. The judges kept on emphasizing to be true to yourself to the point that I think TNP trying to say is that they have not made any life changing or incredible performances. This is a competition to show talent yes a bit of personality but this season just too much (Cue Crystal's crying episode). If she had oversome it, it would have made a greater impact on the show.

Anyways, I strongly feel that Paula Abdul should still be in the show as one of the judges. She made me feel confident about myself through the words she use. Maybe the contestants felt it too thats why past season had INCREDIBLE performances because they pushed themselves not for the judges but for themselves.

Also it's so obvious the judges favour Lee Dewyze.
Somehow I feel that Ellen Degeneres should not be in the show. No offence, but I think she is better off with her own show.

3. Save it for later.
The save on Michael Lynch is just totally nonsense. And Siobhan, seriously? America? Who the f**k in the competition who can actually make me get goosebumps all over (cue paint it black), its only her!

4. Ryan Reeks
Ryan seacrest needs to get his act properly. The stage has become oh-so comfortable for him, too comfortable actually, that his hosting skills just became mediocre, lack-lustre and just awkward.

5. Teflon Tim
Tim Urban, seriously? What were the producers trying to show here? He really can't sing to save himself. Other than his goodlooks, I mean what is there to him anymore? Probably, the producers had their own reasons. I am very sure that out of the top 24 contestants, they could have picked a better replacement. Yes, no?

I would like to just add on to that list; the mentors.
Shania Twain? How old is that lady? Yes her songs are damn nice, but she is from another ERA! The songs are not current. The younger audiences might not even know who she is. If her status was like Frank Sinatra, I guess almost anyone would know her.

Miley Cyrus. A younger kid mentoring the contestants who are are older than her. It is just weird. Producers, have you ever asked yourself that question? Okay she might be famous and all, but putting her in the same light as Adam Lambert and Jamie Foxx is just so so wrong. Though the music industry sees her in a different way, the audience DON'T!

I conclude, the producers have themselves to blame on the less than impressive ratings and the decrease in voting numbers.

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On a side note, I was reading The Straits Times online and came across this article about Manhunt competition where the guys had to actually strip infront of an open audience and do a runway show (sort of). Okay it's not strip naked but to their undies, however I still think its weird. What is suppose to be done backstage should remain back there. I applaud on the wide choices of contestants.

If only our local soccer team had players who look like them all muscular and fit, I'm damn sure the soccer team would flourish somehow. Just look at other leagues in the world adn compare it to Singapore. We are pale in comparison. Soccer players turned models or doing modelling as a sideline. Why not Singapore? You know what I mean. I've seen better soccer matches in "A" division when I was in my JC days. What happened to all this players? They should be groomed from young and get introduced into the league. They don't just turn into a soccer pro overnight. Importing foreginers ain't gonna solve ANYTHING.

All the best to Singapore and YOG.

“Badmaa$h Company Gala Movie Night”

Mon, 26 Apr 2010 07:26:26 +0800

TinselGurus in association with Jalan Distributors Asia are extending their invites to a “Badmaa$h Company Gala Movie Night” . Featuring hot and smoldering Shahid Kapoor and the beautiful Anushka Sharma.
Happening on 7th May 2010 @8pm, Golden Village Tampines Mall

When you think Bollywood , you think bright and bold colours, amazing cinematography, mesmerizing music and dance moves, and an escapism for all . Similar to Indian Food, MASALA (a collection of Indian spices ) is their formula for a blockbuster hit.

Come and experience a Masala Bollywood Film, pumping with Masala music plus grab a Masala goodie bag home and win some Masala prizes in our lucky dip!

So ladies, drape your sarees and bring your man to an exclusive gala premiere of "Badmaash Company".
Tickets are on sale now.
Early Bird (S$35)
At The Door (S$45)

Sms your valid email address and the no. of tix you're interested to purchase @ 94876455.

Ticket Price include(s):
1 Badmaash Company Movie Ticket
Popcorn and soft drink for 1
Masala Art buffet dining voucher worth over S$35
Goodie Bag (Worth over $200)
1 Lucky Draw Token

Un-Lunched

Sat, 17 Apr 2010 10:08:03 +0800

Yum yum yum yum yum yum!

Sherry Vine - Make Me Moan (Lady GaGa - Telephone Parody)

Tue, 13 Apr 2010 21:52:46 +0800

You Think You Got The World Figured Out...

Sun, 04 Apr 2010 00:34:13 +0800

*Listen to this song while reading =))

Its amazing how you can find very eye-opening videos on youtube. If you took the time to actually critically think about what is happening around the world and make the right associations and connections between the situations in the world. You would then realise that the world is actually ill.

No thanks to cruel human beings that exist in the world. Have you ever thought about where do diseases come from. Have you ever thought about the food you are eating. Where does it come from and how it was slaughtered and grown. No thanks to human beings who are trying to play God and alter nature to meet their greed for more. We have always been taught to be contented with our lives but its not a crime to strive for better. However we still need to consider that we should not strive for better in the expense of other living things, i.e. human, animals.

Why is there a disparity between the rich and poor. Why can't the rich distribut their wealth to the poor, when they know that they still have money rolling in their bank acount. It makes me sick in the stomach looking at the rich spending money like water. No i'm not saying that it is wrong, they deserve it, but do they even stop to realise where this money comes from. One man doesn't build an empire by himself but with an army of people. Should he or should not he be greedy and keep everything for himself? You think for yourself.

Lastly, have you ever thought about the banking industries in the world. Why are we so dependent on this industry. When an economy crisis hits the world, people lose their job, lose their self-respect and ultimately lose themselves.

This is just part one of what that has been going on in my mind these few weeks. Remember peeps, the world is in need of help. If you took just 5 mins of your life to reflect, you'll have a better perspective of life. Till Then.

Lady GaGa - Telephone (Feat. Beyoncé)

Sun, 14 Mar 2010 01:38:11 +0800

Okay the story goes like this, from my perspective lah, you can choose to critique. This is suppose to be a continuation of "Papparazi". She murdered her husband/lover/boyfriend in the very big mansion/house. She is going to jail for it, but somehow she is not sentenced for life. She got Honey B (Beyoncé) to bail her out. Apparently the song has got to do with Honey B's situation of feeling being very overprotected by her husband/lover/boyfriend played by Tyrese Gibson. She needed Lady GaGa's to help him. See the similarity in Honey B's way of poisoning and Lady GaGa's in "Papparazi", they mixed poison in the drink.

On the other hand, Lady GaGa who was in the same diner as Honey B was busy preparing food for the customers. Damn hilarious the way she danced while preparing the sandwiches. It then goes to somehow a a fast-forwarded cooking show, where Lady GaGa demonstrated how she mixed the maple syrup with blue poison. Awesome!. Let's go back to the line she said, "If you wanna kill a cow, you gotta make a burger" Cow = Tyrese? burger = thats why they went to a Diner?

Lady GaGa didn't just end up killing Honey B's boo but she killed everybody in the Diner. LOL!. After that I guess, she was doing a victory dance infront of the dead people. >_<
There could be an underlying message here. Observer GaGa and B wearing the American flag prints costume. And they are dancing infront of dead people. GO FIGURE.

They made a run after the homicide in their Pussy Wagon (KillBill)!